We bought a restaurant downtown and made plans to remodel it, including ripping off this whole exterior facade and re-bricking it to fit in with the downtown architecture better.
BEFORE:

The lights and ceiling decorations as well as the neon were on the hit list. We decided to restore the floor.

This dance floor was taken out completely.

One surprise we had is that when we removed the rotten wood floors, there was just dirt underneath, no foundation. We had to start over completely and lay a cement foundation. We also had to re-roof the entire building, which was totally unexpected.

AFTER:
After nearly a year of construction, we had our new restaurant and were ready to open. With the new brick front and windows, the place had a much brighter, cheerier feeling to it.

The bar was refinished and stained and covered with a copper top. All of the gaudy neon lights were removed and replaced.

The booths were redesigned and upholstered and new bar tables and chairs were added.

Airy open archways were put in between the two sides of the restaurant.

The floors were tiled and a local artist's paintings put on display.

My husband wrote the menu for it and was the owner/general manager.
We partnered with a family member and opened for business. It was a smashing success and quickly became the most popular restaurant in the area.
Then one day, evil struck. Actually evil had been lurking, but we did not know. Our partner was bad, very bad, oh so really rotten bad.
And we were financially destroyed. We walked away from the restaurant and away from the dream.
The End.






































































168 comments:
OH my goodness, I am so sorry that was done to you. BUt what goes around comes around and bites us in the butt... want me to lay hands on em.. I mean I am a christian but I can forget I am saved long enough to lay hands and NOT in a prayerful way... just sayin'
I am so sorry for you. That totally sucks. Maybe another??
wow, I'm so sorry! The restaurant looked wonderful....so sad.
That is so sad. I am so sorry. You did an amazing job on the remodel. You can be so proud of what you accomplished.
Sniffle. HUGS.
I am so sorry to hear that, especially after all the hard work put in. I agree with singedwingangel that what goes around comes around...
oh no!! it turned out so beautiful! i'm so sad to hear that the rug was pulled out from under you. do you think you'll ever give it another go?
i believe in karma...that evil person will get theirs.
*hugs*
Ohhhh! That's so sad! The remodel turned out beautiful - too bad you ended up partnering with the devil. Ugh!
That is awful and so sad... and being that you said you partnered with a family member and the partner ended up being "bad"... I am assuming that your family member was bad. Which makes it even tougher.
I'm so sorry. The restaurant looked wonderful. Y'all did great work... I'm just sorry you got taken advantage of.
The place looked Awesome! That is such a shame, you can't trust anyone!!
Oh, man, I did NOT see that coming. I guess I'm not the only one... so sorry, man!
That's too bad because it looked like you guys did such a great job. I hate when bad things happen to good people. At least you got to reach and live your dream even if for a little while.
I also believe in Karma and hope whoever did that gets it back threefold. I am evil that way.
Ok, I wasn't expecting that ending. That place looked awesome!! So sorry.....
Oh that is horrible! I am so sorry!!!
-->I'm so sorry to hear that. The place was beautiful after the remodel too.
Don't forget about Karma, that bad man will get what's coming to him eventually.
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I love the all the remodeling, it was very very nice!
sorry to hear about you walking away from your dream!!!
That was one beautiful restaraunt. I'm sorry it turned out so badly. Maybe one day you'll get your dream back...
Oh that is sad when you have to walk away from your dreams...
Not the first tale I've heard of the perils of partnering with a family member. Then the rest of the family chooses sides. Pain for everyone.
Oh god that's horrible! And a family member to boot. :( The restaurant looked beautiful. I'm so sorry someone so cruelly took your dreams from you.
Love the look and all the changes that were made.
Be VERY PROUD that you did something to fulfill your dream even if it didn't work out in the end. Most people live in the dream stage and don't take that extra step. You took the chance and that is amazing.
Wow...it looks like it was a beautiful restaurant. It's too bad when you can't even trust family. Maybe someday you guys can venture back into the business....
the restaurant looks so lovely - I'm so sorry to hear about this. People are so mean sometimes
What a beautiful restaurant! So sorry you lost it. That's pretty crappy.
Oh my gosh! What happened! It looks like the coolest place!
What lovely changes. I say this (to myself!) several times a day, but I just don't understand people who hurt and take advantage of others. It happens, all the time, but I just don't get it.
Wow-not the ending I was hoping for/expecting. I'm so sorry that happened to you!
Geez. That royally sucks. The restaurant was so gorgeous to!!
Maybe with any Karma Luck that person will catch some strange disease that makes their nose fall off...... =)
and here i was getting all excited about the transformation...and then...that sucks! sorry.
Now I know why you blanked out the name of the restaurant. So sad that it had to turn out that way. I hope that the experience doesn't turn you away from doing it again if you have the chance— it looks like you did an excellent job of remodeling.
Hoping that you can pick up the pieces and move onward and upwards.
The place looked great. Sorry to hear about the disaster. What happened to the evil man?
I was so excited by the photos and so happy for you. I am terribly sorry it ended badly.
beautiful renovations and restaurant. so sorry your dream was destroyed. even more sorry it was a family member that destroyed it. thanks for sharing and take care.
OMG OMG OMG!
First you did beautiful work! It looked amazing!
You must have been so upset. Your poor husband. Some people are just so cruel.
Oh my gosh, how terrible. However, sometimes life puts up brick walls so that we can see how bad we really want something.
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I'm so sorry! I hope that bad relative riots in hell.
I'm so sorry. That sounds awful. I hope your partner gets what's coming to him/her. Soon. Karma's a bitch, you know.
BV - THAT BLOWS. don't know what else to say. the restaurant looked beautiful
GAH!!! Hopefully said partner has paid the price for his evilness...
Shame. You really did a fantastic job remodeling the business.
It looks so beautiful, you must have been crushed! I hope the a-hole is in jail!
Unless you are there all the time running it and controlling the books, it's a common occurrence.
Sorry to hear that the dream had a very unhappy ending. You guys did a wonderful job restoring it. Maybe it will happen for you in the future. It has always been my husband and I's dream to own a restaurant/bar as well. Kudos to you for following your dream!
That is terrible! Sorry to hear that :-( The restaurant did look fantastic after you remodeled it.
Oh my goodness! It looked gorgeous! What a sad story, though. :(
And is evil partner/swindler, in jail? Because if he isn't, he needs to cough up your money so you can move forward with your dreams again.
What state are you in again? I may have to come out and visit you so we can talk restaurant ideas and jazz music! (a la my big brother's dream)
So sorry this happened but he was the one that will reap what he has sown.
I'd love to own a restaurant also, but with my back my dream will never come to fruition.
My dad was also ruined by his brother with there joint venture.
So glad you go to live your dream so sorry somebody else ruined it for you.
That totally stinks! We had something similar to this happen in my extended family.
Well, that stinks.
Sorry about that, girl.
oh no!major bummer!
Thank sucks because it looks like it was a really nice place to eat. Not sure why but I hear alot of people say business partners are bad. That is ashame. Thanks for sharing.
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It's terrible that that happened to you! I'm making note in my head to be careful who I go into business with. I'm at school now to learn how to own/manage a restaurant, because it's my dream too.
I hope that what's-his/her-face had to foot the bill after you walked away...it would have served them right for serving up some badness!
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* I would have eaten there any day of the week. It looked gawg!
What a very sad story. I'm sorry your partner was so bad. I'll be sad for you.
So sorry girl :( it looked beautiful!
Wow it's so hard to open a successful restaurant as it is, then to have this happen is terrible.
It looks like you did an amazing job re-furbishing the place.
I'm so sorry it had to end that way.
God how awful...Im truly sorry for what happened to you, like the trump says, if you built it once you can do it again....any future plans for another?
OMG, that is so horrible!!! After all that work, all that sweat, all that MONEY and love and you had to just walk away????
Do you think you'll ever try again? You made such a huge difference in the appearance of that place...
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That is just awful! I'm so sorry you guys had to go through that. My brother-in-law had his own business and partnered up with some very bad folks as well. Needless to say, he lost everything. It makes you just sick that people are so cruel and greedy. Thankfully, my brother-in-law has started another business and is doing very well...and much more particular about who he works with.
What a crushing disappointment!
That just blows! It looked like a really nice place. I guess you couldn't sue the bad guy?
I am so very sorry! There are some really bad people in the world.
I hope you are able to follow your dream again.
Cece
That sucks bad. Hopes and dreams shattered. I'm sorry that happened to you.
OH my dear...our stories are so similar! We have transformed a restaurant with family members as partners. I'm almost afraid to write down the details of the hell that has occurred thanks to this friendly partnership. I have a feeling I will be able to carbon copy your post in about a year!
Hugs to you.
What a gorgeous transformation! I'm sorry it didn't work out! Thats awful.
It was beautiful and you did a fabulous job with it. So sorry about the outcome. Big hugs.
You did an increible job with the renovations---it looks fabulous. It's awful it didn't work out for you guys. I'm sure that was rough, especially after everything you went through to repair it...do you think you'll ever try again?
That is awful. I really was waiting for the happy ending. Turned out beautiful though. Karma goes around, wait and see what happens to your ex-partner. Although, we don't wish that upon anyone....
Karma....it's a bitch and he will get his, that's for sure.
Oh my gosh the place looks amazing! That is so sad that somebody totally screwed you. (my term, not yours)
Thinking of opening another anytime?
Wow, it looked amazing! What happened?! So hard when it's a family member... =(
OMG really? I hate to sound cliche but when one door closes another one opens!
Oh my goodness! That was such an awesome place!! I am so sorry about this!
What?? That sucks, not really the ending I was hoping for! :( It was beautiful though!
That REALLY sucks. Maybe it's possible to do it again???
It looks great. That's horrible that you got ripped off. Our sis in law did that to us. Well we weren't left financially destroyed, but she did steal some $ from us. What happened to the person who did it?
Depressing. It looked like a nice place. I had a teacher in law school who used to say that you should never have a partner. I scoffed but after long hard experience I learned that he was right.
Oh man, that is one of the saddest endings I've herad! You guys did a beautiful job on the rennovation!
i am so sorry.. and such a beautiful place it was too...
Oh that just stinks!!! What a terrible thing to have happened to you! The restaurant looked beautiful.
How devastating. All that work you put in. It looked beautiful! I'm so sorry that someone stole that all and more from you. There are just nasty people in the world. Hopefully your "partner" got what was coming to them.
I am so sorry you didn't get to see your dream realized! It looks like it would have been a very fun place to hang out, you all did wonderful restoration! :(
As I am familiar with that part of the world, and it's restaurants, please E-mail me where it was- if you are inclined.. Sorry you had a crook for a pardner.. It happens more than most know..
That is so horrible! It looked like such a great place! So sorry!!
this is a sad bad world...please don't let your dreams die though!!!
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that experience. You did a great job restoring the place.
I'm so sorry that happened to you that is awful! That is so awesome that you were able to do that though, it really looked beautiful.
oh man. you guys put so much time, money and effort into this! i am so sorry for the shitty outcome. i KNOW A HIT MAN if you are interested. kidding. i was just thinking that i need to come up with a plan to start my own business, as i am getting old, and rather tired of dealing with a boss. but i know owning your own business is a whole other set of problems. ugh. again, i am so sorry for what happened to you guys. it just isn't fair.
I certainly didn't expect that ending. I'm sorry.
What a shame. Why are there nasty, greedy people like that in the world?
Oh no, how awful. I am so sorry.
I feel the urge to kick the bad guy in the shins like my daughter does when she's pissed.
Gorgeous renovation, horrible partner. Scumbag!! I hope he's gotten his just desserts!
That sucks!
I managed a place... and after doing that, I said I would NOT OWN ONE!
Just remember, Karma will get them!
Ugh... I was getting ready to book a dinner reservation!
I'm guessing there was a lesson in there somewhere. I'll say it again, UGH!!!
Ohhhhh that is so sad! How can family be so evil! Don't people ever stop to consider that some day they are going to have to pay for all the evil stuff they do?
It was a beautiful place. You can still feel proud. Don't let evil squash that! ♥
That is too bad. We had a similar experience. We lost everything and started over. Why is there always some evil person involved in these situations?
Oh, so heartbreaking, the place looked absolutely beautiful and you had take such care in the renovation. I could feel your excitement in the changes just from your descriptions, so thoughtful to change the front to blend better with the town, I am so sorry to hear that your dream was ruined by a dishonest partner. So, so sad for your entire family.
I am so sorry that happened to you! Our restaurant is our dream too but it isn't quite that nice yet (it needed a lot of work and the economy sucks) but I can sympathize because my husband went into business with a family member some years ago and he lost it all because the guy had terrible business sense and we had to dig ourselves out.
Seriously, pretty much the exact same thing happened to my husband and I! Except it was a pizzeria and it was his brother that screwed him over!
1 week before brother was to give hubby his 1/2 of the money, he backed out. And then, 2 months later this evil brother decided to SUE my husband, his own brother, for money he had put into the business while he was there. A whopping $7,000, when HE was to give us $35,000!
Needless to say, my hubby got smart and counter sued him for that money, and evil brother dropped everything VERY quickly!
I feel so bad for hubby, it was a longtime dream of his, and I only hope one day we can open another, just the 2 of us!
I can honestly say, I feel your pain!
Oh dear! I was afraid the story would end that way..considering I had never heard it before. For what its worth...the transformation was amazing! I can only imagine, with your personality behind it how wonderful it did!
That was heartbreaking! :( Sometimes dealing with other people can turn dreams into nightmares!
That is so sad, your dream gone because of an evil person. I am so sorry. It looks like such a wonderful place. You did such beautiful work. ((HUGS))
with evil like that being a "family member" the only family are the 2 you made and the man that loves you!
Dang that sucks!!
And a beautiful dream it was, too. I worked in food service for years, and always thought my neck o' the woods could use a good beer garden. But, as you know, the restaurant biz is not for the feint of heart. I doubt I'd be able to make a go of it...
that sucks. people are just awful to each other. granted, it's why i have a job. but that really sucks.
Well that is just a creepy thing to do. So sorry.
Aww, breaks my heart. You put so much work into the place and it was beautiful! Where is that partner now, jail I hope!
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Oh my gosh, Elizabeth!! How horrible! It was soooo lovely. I hope that person rots in hell for that.
That is HORRIBLE. It looks so beautiful. I think the common advise to never go into business with family members or friends is true. My husband has not had a positive experience with business with either and would never ever do it again. What a shame. I guess life goes on. It's too bad though, what good is it to have family if they can't be trusted in a business partnership?
Wow, that is so terrible! And all of the effort and money and heart you invested in the place.
I would have been furious!
I guess the only way is to go into business for yourself.
Very sad. I hope you'll find the inspiration (and the investment) to try it again someday because clearly you've got the knack for it.
That just made me so sad for you. As I read the post I was feeling so excited but then the end. I hope that things work out for you...this dream needs to work...your ideas are amazing!
That just made me so sad for you. As I read the post I was feeling so excited but then the end. I hope that things work out for you...this dream needs to work...your ideas are amazing!
That is terrible!! Is that restaurant still open?
Wow, I wasn't expecting that ending. I'm so sorry.
That is awful. I can't imagine how terrible it was to go through. I hope that all is well for you now.
That's horrible! Who in the world would do that to you?!? It was a beautiful place, too.
I hope everything is ok now.
I totally wasn't expecting the ending especially when it was so beautifully remodeled. So sorry.....
How Horrible!! Beautiful resteraunt
I'm sorry that happened is their anyway you could re-open by yourself? or is it opened?
That's terrible!!! And after all that hard work!
Super cool restaurant but oh so sad. The same thing happened to my husband when he got into business with somebody not so up and up. Now we fly solo. Best of luck on your next dream!
Oh my goodness - and after all of that hard work? I am sure you both were devastated. I had no idea and I am so, so sorry!! It was a beautiful place...
Oh My Gosh! It was so beautiful. I'm so sorry that your dream was stolen by an evil person. Do you need help teaching him a lesson?? I'll help!
I'm sure your future dreams will include no partners, so nothing like this ever happens again.
That is awful!! A family member ruined your dreams!?
I am so sorry. That looked like a place my Husband and I would frequent.
I don't understand how people can do that?! I just don't get it.
It was so gorgeous, too. Do you think you'll ever open one again sans partners?
I feel so badly for you. It looked like a beautiful place. I am so sorry the dream was taken away from your family. Maybe something else better is around the corner.
One rotten egg destroying a family's dreams. Its shocking! I'm so sorry.
Woah.
That's Horrible. Capital-h horrible. :O(
What a beautiful rennovation you did. It is sad that it did not work out. Partners can be a BIG problem.
This made my heart hurt for you. So badly. Your restaurant looked beautiful! I am so glad that you made your dream come true! And I am so sad that someone else destroyed it.
Awww, so sad for your amazing dream to be crushed like that. Some people are just rotten to the core. So sorry for your lose. The restaurant was just beautiful. You guys did a wonderful job. Thanks for stopping by.
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Oh darling!
You almost had me in tears ;-(
I feel so bad about this- but trust me - karma will come to the bad partner, always does.
The resty was so beautiful and the work put into it- so proud of you!
You will have the opportunity to fulfill your dreams - NEVER give up on them!
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Oh, I'm so sorry. What a beautiful restaurant and what a great remodel job. Like everyone else, the ending took me by surprise.
You had a FAMILY MEMBER do this to you??? Ohmygosh that is just horrible! It was a beautiful dream and a lovely place.
I hope the dream will come again, bigger, better and brighter than before!
That is tragic. After so much hard work. The place looks amazing after the remodel.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Perhaps this door closing will only offer a new opportunity, with more knowledge and strength under your belt. An opportunity that is partner free.
oh my god. That is so sad! I'm not sure what else to say. I'm so sorry. Hopefully you're stronger because of it.
Oh wow...it was GORGEOUS place! You must have been heart sick...
Wow, there wasnt anything you could do?
This is awful! Maybe one day, you try again.Don't you? I'm sure, you rock!!!
Nooooo! That is just sucky awful! And a FAMILY member did that to you guys? Boooo on doing business with family! :-(
wow, amazing transformation. It looks inviting, clean and modern. I am sure that it was a lot of work, but worth it!
Oh, that just makes me heart sick. You guys did such a gorgeous job remodeling. Too bad the dream was destroyed.
Very sorry to hear that. I'm speechless.
Honey you took my breath away. People really just as impossible and wrong to people that they should hold dear to them. Instead they treat them horribly and move on with out looking back!
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My sympathies. Been there and done that with business partners.
That is awful! I am so sad that you all worked so hard, got so far, and horrible people stole your dream! Do you think you two will ever open a new restaurant again?
That is horrible. It as such beautiful restaurant too. I'm so sorry that happened to you.
What a nice place...what a shame that the partner was so horrible.
Boo :( :( :( :( Loved it until the ending. :(
Oh No! I'm so sorry.
Karma will come for the evil one.
That's so heartbreaking.
Oh...how hateful of that partner!
What a beautiful place, it really sucks when a partner screws you like that. It happened to us, also.
We had to claim bankruptcy this year due to being swindled by a "friend". We know how it feels.
I am so sorry you lost your dream. I hope you are able to have it back one day.
That is super cool! I want a restaurant, and I want to be the head chef. I would love it. I'm sorry you got hosed by your business partner/family!
So sorry that happened to you all. Maybe someday the dream can come true again.
Wow. I feel your pain. My situation wasn't quite as involved as remodeling and opening a restaurant though. Against our best judgement, we partnered with family in a 2nd home on a lake...ended up REALLY bad...was the beginning of our financial rock bottom and also brought out the true colors in people we thought loved and thought we knew.
OMG blue I am soo sorry for this... my heart was so heavy for you after I read this my dear friend
What a gorgeous job you did. I'm so sad for the outcome. And that it was a family member. I imagine this has had devestating effects all around.. in so many ways.
What type of food did you serve?
How did I miss his post?? Oh gosh what a disaster. I believe that all bad people will burn in hell... I am sure they are saving a seat for that partner down there.
OR
You know, my hubby's family is Italian and we gots some connections... Just say the word.
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry this happened to you. How sad that there are people out there like that. I strongly believe in karma, for what that's worth.
(I seemed to have missed this post too! Apologies for the late comment.)
Oh my God! That sucks! I had no idea.... It was beautifully redone though. At least you can be proud of that. Never trust friends and business - they just don't go together. A horrible way to learn that lesson though.
I am so sorry...I don't know how I missed this. I hope you weather this financial hardship my friend...hubs and I are there with you..so many of us feeling something this year.
So sorry. That sucks..plain and simple. It looks like you did a beautiful job on the place.
Holly
Wow. How do you ever get over something like that? Well, you don't, I'm sure. Easy to say it will all work out but boy, what a blow. I'm very sorry that happened to you.
Wow, now I know the whole story. Not cool. Don't you go back there, I don't care what holiday it is!
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