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What If?

How to save your marriage. That’s the million dollar question.

There’s not a day that goes by when I don’t wonder if there was something more I could have done or should have done to save mine.

I like my ex-husband.

I love my ex-husband.

I miss my ex-husband.

lighting candles at wedding

But, we talk almost every day. We’re still very, very close.

Every time I think about him I either laugh (because he’s freakin’ hilarious) or cry (because I desperately miss him).

It’s not like we didn’t try. Granted, we didn’t go to a marriage retreat like I’ve heard about on talk shows, but we went through marriage counseling. I even went by myself to try to work through some issues which may have affected us as a couple.

I think it was the right thing to do. He thinks it was the right thing to do, but yet we both still wonder if it was the right thing to do.

kiss on forehead at wedding

Only time will tell.

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  1. My heart squeezed as I read this: 1. Because I did not realize you are divorced 2. Because from what you wrote it does not sound like either of you really wants to be divorced.

    Hoping for the best.

  2. Andrea says:

    Hugs to you. I wish I knew or had some semblance of an answer, but I don’t. So I just send loads of hugs.

  3. shortmama says:

    I think its so rare to have the kind of relationship that you still maintain with your ex…its really a gift that you can still be that close